Baby, it’s hot outside! You want to feel cool and confident in your summer wardrobe, but you’ve been through a lot lately — your breast cancer diagnosis, surgery and now breast reconstruction. You might be feeling a little unsure about stepping out. Here are some tips to help you feel more confident in how you’re dressing post-reconstruction so you can enjoy the summer sun.
Don’t sacrifice your own sense of style and comfort.
You’ve gone through many physical and emotional changes since your diagnosis and having a sense of control is important to feeling more confident. So wear what makes you feel good. Do not think you need a new style or a new wardrobe to bring back your sense of self.
For example, you know that favorite summer t-shirt or sundress that you’ve worn for years because it brings back great memories? If putting either of them on makes you feel good, wear it. When you feel good, you will automatically smile and feel better about yourself.
Dress up another asset.
Feeling insecure? That’s fine. Accentuate a different part of your body for now. Got great legs? Draw attention to them. Or consider getting your hair done to invite conversation about that instead.
Wear the right bra.
It’s already a hot summer, so the last thing you need is to feel sticky and sweaty in your bra. What you wear underneath your clothes is just as important as what you wear on top of your clothes. You should wear a post-reconstruction bra that is soft and provides breathability. Fabrics like cotton make bras more comfortable on sensitive skin and any scar tissue that is still healing. Your current bras might not fit or may be uncomfortable as you heal. Use a company that specializes in post-mastectomy bras, such as Masthead Elizabeth Pink Surgical Bra. They will fit better after reconstruction which, in turn, will provide a much-needed confidence boost.
Find the right swimsuit.
If you have been given the all-clear from your doctor to go into the water, then make sure you’re prepared with a properly-fitted swimsuit. After reconstruction your breasts may not be the same size, so you may need to purchase one with a better fit. If you’re concerned about swimsuits that show scars, don’t be. Many companies offer post-surgical swimsuits that come with a higher neckline and more underarm coverage, so your scars should barely be noticeable.
Keep a positive attitude.
What you see as a breast cancer patient may differ from what others see. Your scars may not be as visible as you think and the change in the look of your new breasts may
not be as extreme as you think they are. It’s important to maintain a positive attitude throughout your entire journey. Then, it won’t matter if you wear a potato sack if you feel good about yourself. You’ll rock any look. Be comfortable and cool and the confidence will show.
